Have you ever set a goal that made your heart race with excitement, only to feel a wave of considerations, fears, and roadblocks crash over you? I know I have.
But here's the thing: these obstacles aren't stop signs; they're just part of the journey to success.
1. Considerations: The Mental Roadblocks
Imagine you're aiming to double your income next year. Suddenly, a chorus of “But what about…?” starts in your head. “I'll have to work twice as hard,” or “My family time will suffer.” Sound familiar? These are considerations – the mental roadblocks we create.
But here's a twist: surfacing these considerations is a good thing. Why? Because they've been subconsciously holding you back. By bringing them to the forefront, you can confront them head-on. It's like cleaning out a closet; you've got to see the mess to deal with it.
Actionable Tip: Write down every consideration that pops up. Challenge each one: Is it true? Is it always true? Often, you'll find these considerations are based on assumptions, not facts.
2. Fears: The Emotional Hurdles
Then come the fears. Fear of failure, rejection, or even success. These aren't just thoughts; they're feelings. And they can be intense. But remember, they're a natural part of the process.
Actionable Tip: Embrace your fears. Literally. Imagine holding your fear in your hands. Acknowledge it, then set it aside. You're not ignoring it; you're choosing to move forward despite it.
3. Roadblocks: The External Obstacles
Finally, there are roadblocks – these are the external challenges. Maybe it's a lack of resources, or perhaps regulations stand in your way. For instance, Stu Lichtman, a business turnaround expert, faced a massive roadblock when he tried to save a company in Maine.
A government lien threatened to derail his plans, but he didn't see it as a dead end. He saw it as a challenge to overcome – and he did, by negotiating with the governor.
Actionable Tip: Identify your roadblocks and brainstorm solutions. Can't find one? Look for a different angle or seek advice. Remember, there's always a way around a roadblock.
Why This Matters
If you're not encountering these big three, your goals might not be ambitious enough. Real growth happens outside of comfort zones. When you face and overcome these challenges, you're not just inching closer to your goal; you're growing as a person and a leader.
Engage With Your Obstacles
Next time you set a goal and these obstacles pop up, welcome them. They're evidence that you're pushing your limits. When you learn to navigate through considerations, fears, and roadblocks, you're not just achieving a goal; you're mastering the art of resilience and growth.
So, let's hear it: What's a big goal you're working on, and what's one obstacle you're currently facing? Let me know and let's brainstorm solutions together.
Remember, we're in this journey of growth and success together!
Keep pushing forward!